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第2章 下一站幸福 1（第1页）

第2章下一站幸福（1）

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尽管每个人对幸福的理解不同，但是幸福的含义是从来不变的。

幸福不是发生在我们周围的事——而是我们如何去看待周围发生的事。

秘诀就在于，我们以积极的心态面对逆境，变压力为动力。

幸福并不是祈求我们所没有的，而是享受我们所拥有的。

通往幸福的旅途

OurPursuitofHappiness

佚名Anonymous

Wechaseafterit，whenitiswaitingallaboutus.

“Areyouhappy？”

Iaskedmybrother，Ian，oneday.“Yes.No.Itdependsonwhatyoumean.”

Hesaid.

&ellme，”

Iasked，“wheimeyouthinkyou>

“April1967.”

Hesaid.

Itservedmerightfaseriousquestiontosomeonewhohasjokedhiswaythroughlife.ButIan’sanswerremiwhehinkabouthappiness，weusuallythiraordinary，apinnacleht—andthosepirarertheet.

Forachild，happinesshasamagicalquality.Iremembermakisihay，playingdrobbersinthewoods，gettingaspeakingpartintheschoolplay.Ofcourse，kidsalsoexperiencelows，buttheirdelightatsuchpeaksofpleasureaswinniinganewbikeisunreserved.

Ieeheceptofhappinessges.Suddenlyit’salonsugsasext，love，popularityazitbefht.Istillfeeltheagonyofedtoapartythatalmosteveryoneelsewasgoingto.ButIalsorecalltheecstasyofbeingpluobscurityataodahaJohnTravoltalook-alike.

Inadulthoodthethingsthatbringprofoundjoy—birth，lealsresponsibilityandtheriskofloss.Lovemaynotlast，sexisn’talwaysgood，lovedonesdie.Foradults，happinessisplicated.

Mydiarydefineshappyas“lucky”

or“fortuIthiionofhappihecapaent.”

Themorewejoywhatwehave，thehappierweare.It’seasytooverlookthepleasurewegetfromlovingandbeihepahefreedomtolivewhereweplease，andeveh.

Iaddedupmylittlemomentsofpleasureyesterday.FirsttherewassheerblisswhenIshutthelastlundhadthehousetomyself.Theaedm，whichIlove.Whenthekidse，Ieheirhequietoftheday.

Later，peadedagain，andmyhusbandandIeherpleasure—intimaesjustthekhewantsmegmejoy.

Youneverknoiur.WhenIaskedfriendswhatmadethemhappy，somementionedseeminglyinsignifients.“Ihateshopping，”

onefriendsaid，“butthere’saclerkwhoalwaysdreallycheersmeup.”

Anotherfrieelephoimeitrings，Ikhinkingaboutme.”

&hrillfr.Ooppedtoletaschoolbusturnohedrivergrinnedahumbsupsigwoalliesinaworldofmadmotorists.Itmademesmile.